No one can make you feel bad about yourself, except you

Why do we always think that if something doesn't go the way we planned its our fault? It is so important to know two things -- 1, any thing another does is never because of you, whether its love, hate, anger, etc, it is never b/c of who you are as a person and 2, you can't take anything personally, whether it is love or anger. You choose how to react. You choose whether or not you are good enough, smart enough, pretty enough. You choose this, remember that. It is a choice. And also always remember that whenever other people attempt to make you feel bad or hurt you, it is b/c they hurt, they are insecure, they feel lacking in themselves.

Now, enough of this, I am gonna go have some fun in the sun!!!